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Is it 8th March already? International Women’s Day is a joke!!!

Is it 8th March already? International Women’s Day is a joke!!!

“God gave women intuition and femininity. Used properly, the combination easily jumbles the brain of any man I’ve ever met.” ~ Farrah Fawcett

Look how far we have come from the first Women’s Day celebration which took place in 1911. The bold headline in The Times of India, New Delhi, Monday, March 7th 2011, screams,

“Women should tolerate violence”

“Nearly one in four Indian men has committed sexual violence at some point in their lives and one in five has admittedly forced his wife or partner to have sex. The findings of a recent International Men and Gender Equality Survey reflect a new low for Indian men. More than 65% Indian men believed that women should tolerate violence to keep the family together, that women sometimes deserved to be beaten.”

What’s good for the goose should be good for the gander too. Both man and woman are part of a family, so why shouldn’t men be beaten up and why shouldn’t they tolerate violence to keep the family together? Why is it that the woman is made a scapegoat and the onus of keeping the family together falls on her strong shoulders?
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“And although Indian men were the most sexually and physically violent at home, they were not involved in violent or criminal behaviour outside. Only 4% Indian men had participated in robbery and 7% had been involved in fights with weapons”

Does that make them public heroes, they don’t commit crimes outside of their homes, wow, Just beat the crap out of their wives and children, what model citizens!!! Men should be rewarded for behaving like decent human beings outside their homes, and what about in the house, where people who love them, live? Here they behave like animals and beat them up mercilessly. If they can control their violent temper outside then they should refrain from violent behaviour in the sanctity of their homes too.

Another headline that jumped out of the paper was,

“Men don’t change diapers, says study”

“A six-country gender equality survey has found that 86% of Indian men believe that changing diapers, giving kids a bath and feeding them, is a woman’s job. Almost an equal number don’t participate in household work.”

Aren’t the men related to the children and don’t they live in the same house as the wives and kids? So why can’t they change their own child’s diaper and help in washing the dirty dishes, they too eat in? Same goes for the other household chores.

“Moreover, roughly 80% Indian men say they should have the final word about decisions in the house. This ‘I-am-the-boss attitude’ seemed less prevalent in all other countries.

Be her friend; don’t try to hold her down forcibly. She is more than capable of sharing your burdens and shoulder responsibilities. She is an asset not a liability.She doesn’t ask for much, needs you to back her up and be there for her when she needs a helping hand, like she is always there for you. I am a woman and all I can say is, it doesn’t take much to become worthy of a woman’s love. All she needs is a little tenderness, a little understanding and a whole lot of love. Give her these three things and she will be yours forever and ever. She has an abundance of love and affection in her heart and will shower it all on you only if you care a bit for her feelings. Make her the centre of your universe and she will make you the king of her heart’s kingdom.

Happy International Women’s day to you all.

Lucks aka Sulekha

WOMEN’S DAY• ONE DAY IN A YEAR,

IF,

No man /boy teases a girl going to school or college,
No girl child is made to stay back home to work instead of being sent to school,
No wedding is cancelled because of dowry demands,
No woman is beaten up and burnt alive in the name of dowry,
No employer sexually assaults a female employee,
No girl child is married off to an old man for money,
No woman is forced to commit sati,
No girl is sold for prostitution,
No female infanticide is committed,
No mother having more than two daughters is belittled,
No widow is blamed for her husband’s death,
No woman is raped,

Then, maybe then –
That one day can be labelled as women’s day.

International Women’s Day is a farce, eyewash and a blatant attempt by the men of this world to flatter the women and lull them into a false state of security. No singIe day is a woman’s day; it is a man’s world and men are the judge, jury and the executioners.

8th March is no different from any other day for a mother of a teenaged daughter; she worries about her going to school/college even on this great and historical day. A bride is set ablaze irrespective of the date, a rape occurs every day, somewhere in the world. What women’s day are we talking about?

A handful of socialites organize a get together, click some photographs, videotape the event, show it on the news channels and that’s about all there is to 8th March. A few articles, about a handful of women, who have braved the odds and managed to claw their way to the top, are the icing on the cake of International Women’s Day for you.

Lucks aka Sulekha

15 thoughts on “Is it 8th March already? International Women’s Day is a joke!!!

  1. Very well said…I do believe in same…whats the use of all the hoopla around one day, when Men don't really respect the women on rest of 364 days? If women is subjected to gender discrimination,have to follow the irrelevant rituals set by the groom's family, is forced to underplay her strength, is not allowed to be in charge of herself, her work, her kids, if she is still have to face lewd remarks and sick flirting…if still she is labelled 'easy catch' just coz she is friendly and open to conversations with strangers, I refuse to celebrate such a hogwash thing !

  2. @Priyashmita, thanks friend.

    @Debbie, We will get there eventually..thanks for the compliment.

    @Alka, welcome to my blog and loved your views, thanks for stopping by and keep coming,thanks.

  3. no act or word should not be silenced this day. your post should be on the front page of every paper and news broadcast around the world. shine the full light of day on those who are refuges of Sodom and Gomorrah. then you we all will a great womans day. god bless you

  4. @Roy, thank you so much, I look forward to your comments and appreciate them a lot.

    @Lavina, welcome to my blog and thank you for the compliment.Do visit again.

  5. So true – lets just stop applauding for the farce. I think men should instead be humored and complimented every time they can really prove to be a man 🙂

  6. @Mitr, Yes we should do that,thanks.

    @Jim, thank you so much for your compliment. Things are changing, though a bit slowly.

  7. You go girl! Thank you for letting us know how it is in India, but believe me, many women in the US are suffering as well in different ways. It is subtle but it can be just as oppressive. Besides, I generally get tired of these made-up holidays! the work continues …

  8. Lucks good read. However, I do believe that in certain sections of the society, men are beginning to change…I hope that change takes place for good!! But then the hand that rocks the cradle does rule the world, here's to women power!!!

  9. @Sweepyjean, It's not all bad, but the statistics don't lie, so go figure.Thanks for visiting and commenting.

    @Swati, There are some evolved men in India too but their number is negligent compared to the majority of MCP's. Thanks for the compliment.

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